Learn How to Small Talk?

One of the biggest things in life that will hinder you if you don’t know how to do it right is to small talk. It’s really not that big of a deal, but if you have some discomforts, or problems on what to say, once again I’m here to help!

1. Understand Who Your Talking Too.

When you talk to different people you need to learn to adapt to them. For instance talking to your employer and talking to a child you would use different words, different tones in your voice, even different hand gestures. Once you can talk in different situations you are ready to work on your small talk.

2. Pick Up On the Person.

Something that can take you a long way with a conversation is to know a little about them, or what they might like. If you don’t know them, I suggest that you talk to someone who does know them a little better, ask a few questions about their personalities or their likes and dislikes.

3. You Lead.

I know you’ve always heard let them lead the conversation. But seriously if  you start the conversation you appear confident, you know what you’re talking about, and or what you want to talk about. You decide where the conversation goes and ends. Dont be afraid to say the first word, you never know they will probably happy that you did.

Stay edgy & Happy Blogging!

-Mainly Zoe

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